me need new music

Where could a fine young lady like me find new and interesting music and events, like that kind of gatherings where's fantastic dj's playing even more fantastic music. Or should I have my own party? Who's with me?
Propably no one... How about farewell-partys?

Who knows good dj's? Who knows good events? Who knows good people and good old-fashioned partys? I want to find one!
Who knows who I have to contact so I could have something better to listen than those old neighbours washing-machines?

Give me some reasons to seek something better?

thanks,
AV